I think my summers at home make me numb in the head, if it weren't for this computer I believe I would forget how to speak and think at all. Or of course that would free me and I would have a better more fulfilled summer, cause so far its sucked, other then... uhh yeah know.
You ever have people you expect so much from, that when it actually gets down to it they let you down, but only because you set your standards so high in the first place? Its even worse when its a friend, isn't it?
Oh and an extension of that , putting myself out there: when you built up a pursona of someone you have a like on that you actually fall for the person, but not the actual person but the being you have concocted in your mind. and even further,(this part is for every kind of relationship not just the crush kind) you want to get to know the person, but since the person is built so high up in your head that you can't approch the person very easily if at all, and makes you afraid to bring your relationship further. Wow I've always wanted to have this convo with someone, but it really is almost an impossible topic to set the stage for. On that note, I've said to much and will now conclude.
It feels like its just me but it always seems to happen that other people seem have the same thoughts. Heres hopein' Cheers.
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I wonder who you're referring to in paragraph deuce?
and what you said in paragraph three = yea. oh man have I done that. though once you've assembled said persona how does one strip it down to the dirt and the grit again, that is, the real personality? back to someone you could handle...
wow this actually scares me to say... but paragraph two and three: yeah i've been there.
expectations can be horrible. sometimes i get to the point where i don't expect anything anymore. but then i snap out of it.
for the record, you should know that there no longer need be any hesitation in starting that conversation. apparently we've all been there.
i tell people i am disappointed at how little i've done this summer. they say, "but you went to chinaaaa." i say, "but i haven't seen anyone else." you people matter to me.
and to go in a completely different direction than the rest: i think the best part about all this is when you realize that the stripped down version is even better.
when that happens.
wow. paragraph two. and three. . good post.
i'm not sure what to say other than . .yea i've bin there. on both sides.
-andy i like the last bit you said.
heh,
cheers. i love it.
Phil: unless the handle runs away.
Kath: Expectations are only good for the right situations, don't give up on them completely.
But yeah they suck alot. lately.
Andy: Getting to know the person is always better. hence...
but yes true it is good stuff.
JB: You've been on the other side?
You lucky bastard.
well i didn't say which bit i was referring to. whether it was the second .. or third.. or both.
so i could be the unlucky bastard.
no jonathan, you're the lucky bastard. luckier than us so far.
wow, i gotta hand it to you abram. this really makes sense to me, 'cause i've been there. and it sucks. and you move on.
opposite of cheers.
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